The words to keep your child safe, ready to read tonight.
You don't have to figure out the right words on your own. Word-for-word scripts for the 8 rules that keep your child safe, written for their exact age. You just read the card.
Already covered "good touch / bad touch"? That's about 2 of the 8 rules. The ones most parents miss are the ones that matter most.
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✓Read one card at bedtime. Your first conversation takes under 5 minutes.
✓Age-specific scripts for 3-5, 6-8, and 9-10+, written for where your child is now.
✓Covers what most parents miss, like the Uh-Oh Feeling Rule and the Camera Rule.
Less than one therapy session · covers all your kids
✓ Use it at bedtime tonight✓ 90-day guarantee✓ Lifetime updates
🤔 "What if I say the wrong thing?" That's exactly why every card gives you the exact words. Age-appropriate, grounded in published child-safety frameworks. You literally just read it.
🌙 Start tonight. Everything lands in your inbox in under 2 minutes. Use it on your phone or print the cards at home. Nothing ships. Your first conversation could happen at bedtime.
Here's what most parents don't know:
Unsafe touch doesn't always hurt.
It can feel ticklish. Confusing. Even nice. A child who's only been taught that "bad touch hurts" won't recognize it when it doesn't. And won't tell anyone, because nothing felt "wrong."
That's the gap. It's the rule most parents have never taught, and it's the one that matters most.
You don't need to be a therapist. You just need the right words.
1 in 4 girls. 1 in 6 boys. 90% already knew the person. Most never told anyone, because nobody gave them the words.
What's Inside the System
Everything you need to teach your child the 8 rules. Nothing you don't.
8 Core Rule Cards
Each of the 8 body safety rules explained in simple, child-friendly language.
24 Age-Specific Script Cards
Exact conversations for ages 3-5, 6-8, and 9-10+. Word for word.
15 "What Would You Do?" Scenario Cards
Practice makes permanent. Realistic situations to rehearse together.
Quick-Start Guide
Which rule to start with tonight. One rule a night, done in 8 days.
Hand of Helpers Worksheet
Your child writes down 5 specific people they can tell anything to.
Printable Poster
All 8 rules in kid language, for their wall or the fridge.
"If They Ever Tell You" Guide
The guide you pray you'll never need, but need to have ready. Exactly what to say, and what not to say.
$39 · One-time purchase · Less than a single therapy session, and it covers all your kids, forever.
That's what most of us think. And honestly? The intention is beautiful.
But knowing WHAT to teach isn't the same as knowing HOW to say it. Say it too casually and it doesn't stick. Say it too seriously and you scare them. Skip one concept and there's a gap.
These cards give you the words, in language your child actually understands, so you're not figuring it out alone at 8pm when you finally work up the courage.
The 8 Rules Your Child Needs to Know (That Nobody Taught Us)
1The Boss Rule
The foundation. They're the boss of their body, and they need to hear it from you first.
2The Real Words Rule
If they only know "wee-wee," they can't tell anyone what happened. Real words matter.
3The Underwear Rule
Not just WHAT'S private. WHO can see, and WHEN. No gray areas.
4The Both-Ways Rule
Their body, their rules. Even when Grandma wants a hug.
5The Uh-Oh Feeling Rule
Unsafe touch doesn't always feel "bad." This rule handles the confusing stuff.
6The Surprises-Not-Secrets Rule
Surprises end with smiles. Secrets about bodies? Always a signal.
7The Hand of Helpers Rule
"Tell a grown-up" is too vague. They need 5 specific people they can tell anything.
8The Camera Rule
Private parts never go in photos or on screens. The rule no one else teaches.
Each rule comes with the exact words to say, written for their age, ready to read together tonight.
What parents are saying
★★★★★
The words finally made sense to her
We had talked about body safety before, but I never felt like I explained it clearly enough. Going through the cards, she finally repeated the rules back to me in her own words.
EEmily R.Verified Buyer·Child age 7
★★★★★
I had been putting this talk off for years
I kept waiting until I found the perfect words, which meant I kept avoiding it. We used the first card at bedtime and it just felt normal.
JJessica M.Verified Buyer·Child age 6
★★★★★
The Safety Circle was the part we needed most
I had always told my son to speak to a trusted adult, but never helped him name the actual people. Now he can list all five with confidence.
AAmanda T.Verified Buyer·Child age 8
★★★★★
The Camera Rule started an important conversation
The Camera Rule covered something I honestly had not thought to explain. My child uses a tablet, and this finally gave us the words for it.
BBrittany H.Verified Buyer·Child age 8
★★★★★
My son remembered the Uh-Oh Feeling Rule
A few days after we used the card, my son mentioned that something at school had given him an uh-oh feeling. He had the words because of these cards.
SSamantha G.Verified Buyer·Child age 7
★★★★★
It felt like a normal bedtime conversation
I grew up in a family where nobody talked about bodies, so I expected this to feel awkward. My husband read one card at bedtime and it was easy.
RRachel K.Verified Buyer·Child age 5
★★★★★
The Real Words Rule helped me too
I did not realize how often I used vague nicknames because I felt uncomfortable saying the correct words. This gave our whole family the right language.
SSarah L.Verified Buyer·Child age 7
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Why we made this
We make printable tools that help kids handle big feelings. And the question that kept landing in our inbox was about a different conversation. The one everyone keeps putting off.
Not because parents don't care. Because nobody gave us the words either.
So we built the thing we wished existed. Eight rules. Exact scripts for every age. Practice scenarios. A poster for the fridge. All of it grounded in published child-safety frameworks like the NSPCC's PANTS rule and the guidance used by children's advocacy centers, and written so you can download it at 9pm and use it at bedtime.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my child too young for this?
The 3-5 scripts use the simplest possible language. Safety educators recommend starting these conversations as early as age 3. If they can name their elbow, they can learn the Boss Rule.
Won't this scare my child?
No. There's nothing scary in the cards. No mention of abuse, no frightening scenarios. Kids experience it as learning the rules about their own body, the same way they learn to look both ways.
We already talked about "good touch / bad touch." Is this different?
That covers about 2 of the 8 rules. The Uh-Oh Feeling Rule, the Surprises-Not-Secrets Rule and the Camera Rule are where most gaps live.
Is this a physical deck that ships?
Digital. Instant download. Print at home or read from your phone. Lifetime updates included.
What if my child has already experienced something?
This kit is education, not treatment. The included guide covers exactly what to say if your child discloses something, and when and where to get professional help.
Will this give them ideas?
Research says the opposite. Kids who know the rules are harder to target and quicker to tell. Predators avoid kids who have the words.
How long does each conversation take?
About 5 minutes per rule. One rule a night. Done in 8 days.
Have the conversation you've been putting off.
Every day your child doesn't know these rules is a day they don't have the words if something happens.
✓ Use it at bedtime tonight✓ 90-day guarantee✓ Lifetime updates
🛡 THE "EASIER CONVERSATIONS" 90-DAY GUARANTEE
Use it with your kid tonight. If after 90 days you don't feel like you finally have the words and the confidence, email us. Full refund. We'd honestly rather you try it and return it than skip the conversation because of a question mark.
The Body Safety Talk Kit$39 · One-time · Covers all your kids
